tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296719059556474038.post5512641208625234947..comments2023-06-10T06:26:39.868-07:00Comments on It's Just Jennifer...: Hated.Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18417570778398224544noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296719059556474038.post-26699014941138750222014-11-06T12:20:01.777-08:002014-11-06T12:20:01.777-08:00Oh wow! First of all, you did nothing wrong. No yo...Oh wow! First of all, you did nothing wrong. No you are not a terrible person. I can't imagine having to work with idiots all day long. What they did was a cruel prank. They are heartless and evil! <br />Two weeks ago a very close friend of mine who has been battling ovarian cancer tried to kill herself because she just wants it all to be over. It has really affected me. People have no idea what someone might be going through. Leaving that message for you to read is bullying. Your boss was right to fire her. <br />Please don't leave your job because of this. Eventually this will all blow over. I imagine you are stressed with the new house and dog and just raising 3 girls. You can't afford to quit. I strongly believe what goes around comes around. Stay strong and keep to yourself. You did the right thing. SallyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296719059556474038.post-11560279532122293082014-11-04T20:42:53.644-08:002014-11-04T20:42:53.644-08:00Don't, for one second, blame yourself. That s...Don't, for one second, blame yourself. That sign is not a joke. No matter who the intended victim was. Or who they say it was. That is not funny. Period.<br /><br />If they are being bitches, then I challenge you to sit their butts down and have this out. Women are notorious for this kind of crap and they will persist because right now, you are the easy one to blame. They are the pack and you are the lonely rabbit without protection. Take your power back.<br /><br />The point of all of this is that that sign was not professional. If that had happened where I work, the person would have been fired. Like escorted from the grounds with an armed escort. She made a dumb choice and in today's society that kind of crap could get your employer sued because of a hostile work environment. Heck. Throw that at them. <br /><br />My point is, don't let their behavior drive you from your job. Unless, of course, you want to be driven. <br /><br />Kisses, hugs, and arms lifting you up!Jennifer Uribehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16200510882601965998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296719059556474038.post-86440671298104424682014-11-04T20:22:24.733-08:002014-11-04T20:22:24.733-08:00That is terrible what M did. Even if she says, tha...That is terrible what M did. Even if she says, that it was not meant for you, she deserved to be fired. It seems like your working environment is very toxic, and It is very hard to understand why the other co workers side with the bully., but it is usually like that. Bullies seem to have many sympathisers who usually gang up against someone, because, they are cowards.<br /><br />I wish I could offer you some words of comfort ,but I don't know what to say. only that I feel your pain, and that I hope, that now that the bully is gone, the others see their error of their ways, and change for the better.<br />Hugs<br />Minervita Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296719059556474038.post-7903450392475177842014-11-04T18:55:08.428-08:002014-11-04T18:55:08.428-08:00Wow, what a horrible day. I don't know you ver...Wow, what a horrible day. I don't know you very well, and the others involved not at all, so I can't make judgements about that. But what I can say is that you didn't force M to do this thing. You didn't kill M. You stood up for yourself and pointed out something they'd done wrong and the rest was the consequences of their actions. Your boss either saw this incident as a big deal or else knew that M had a history of things that this was the final straw of. I don't think you are a terrible person. Hopefully in time it will be forgotten or fade in your co-workers minds and you can all move on. If you really hate it there, and it sounds you have good reason to, then find another job to go to before you quit. Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05104693042948517678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2296719059556474038.post-29941005566954109652014-11-04T17:37:51.006-08:002014-11-04T17:37:51.006-08:00You're not a terrible person! Honestly, had sh...You're not a terrible person! Honestly, had she been my employee and something like that surfaced it wouldn't matter what the circumstances were, I would have fired her too. And quite frankly, it sounds like she wasn't worth her weight in salt, so if for no other reason take comfort in the fact that the person who wasn't doing their work is no longer around (I swear that makes sense in my head, lol). As for the others, I wish I had some kind of words of wisdom...best I can say is do the best you can to ignore it and just keep doing what you're supposed to do. I think if you quit, its more fodder for the fire. Stand your ground and don't back down...eventually the storm will pass...until it does, good lucknikkiloohoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15768703081001536329noreply@blogger.com